Purchasing a home is challenging enough as it is. On top of that, your personality and lifestyle preferences may play a big role in which aspects of the home buying process are most challenging. In particular, being an introvert or a highly sensitive person can make shopping for a home and finding the perfect fit especially daunting. Here are some things to consider if you feel like you or a loved one fall under this description.
First, it is important to understand the differences, similarities and unique needs of introverts and highly sensitive people. Introverts tend to avoid situations involving conflict, find social situations rather draining and need alone time to recharge. Highly sensitive people, on the other hand, have heightened sensitivity to environmental factors such as bright light, strong smells and other highly stimulating input. They both need spaces with privacy and prefer small groups.
Regardless of whether you are an introvert or an HSP, there are several key benefits to owning a home. According to Dr. Holly Schiff, Psy. D., licensed clinical psychologist at JFS Greenwich, the mental health benefits include higher self-confidence and a greater sense of independence. On top of that, owning your own real estate is widely reported as the form of purchase with the highest return on investment. As someone who values their peace and quiet, it’s amazing what being in control over your space can do for you.
Finding the perfect home
Several factors can change your home from an unsafe environment to one that truly fits your needs. Searching for a home with large fences, big yards and space between you and your neighbor can offer privacy you need. Neighborhoods with low traffic, minimal street noise and proper ventilation allow for peace and quiet. Closed concept homes with a dedicated space for alone time help not to overstimulate or drain you. Finally, a home security system and proximity to any necessities will help you feel safe in your home.
How to make the ideal space
Once you’ve found the ideal house, it’s time to tweak it to your liking, and truly make it a home. Adding dark or blackout curtains, soft lighting and an air purifier can help create a safe haven for any sensory needs. Designating a special space for meditation, hobbies or just relaxation can help you feel especially secure. Consider soft colors for the walls and decorating with comforting pictures, including calming art or images of loved ones. It’s important to keep lighting low, and if you’re spending lots of time alone, limiting your technology use and balancing your activities.
What you need to know
Regardless of where you identify yourself within the spectrum of introverted and extroverted, safely and effectively purchasing a home includes buying homeowner’s insurance. This allows you to ensure that when you make the big move and close the deal to what might just be the biggest investment of your adult life, that your home remains protected in the event of damage, theft, or even a liability issue. So save yourself the future headache, and give yourself the gift of a new protected home.
